Filing for divorce is rarely as easy as suddenly waking up and deciding it’s time to end your marriage. Coming to the decision can be the easy part. You know your marriage is on a downward spiral and isn’t getting any better. The tough part is usually figuring out when to file for divorce. 

 

Once you file, pretty much everyone knows your marriage is nearing its end. Timing your divorce can be tricky, especially around the holidays. We’re addressing the pros and cons of a divorce during the holidays so you have a better idea of it’s the right time for you.

Why Filing for a Holiday Divorce Can Be a Good Idea

The holidays and divorces rarely seem like they go together. However, this can also be the perfect time to start your divorce paperwork. You can even consider it a present to yourself. Just think, you can spend the holidays without your spouse. 

 

If your marriage has reached the point where you can’t be in the same room with each other, a holiday divorce can be a great option. You also get a holiday free from any in-laws you may not have meshed with during your marriage.

Communication Can Be Easier

Divorcing couples and communication rarely go hand-in-hand. Emotions tend to run high. Even if you and your soon-to-be former spouse are still communicating, life can get in the way. Finding time to sit down and talk about a divorce is tough.

 

Things tend to slow down around the holidays. This can make it a little easier to find some free time. Holiday seasons can also put you and your spouse in a better mood. This may make it a little easier to discuss specifics about your upcoming divorce. Your spouse may even see things your way and be more agreeable to some of your demands.

You May Get a Tax Break

Okay, this isn’t the best reason to plan on a holiday divorce. Lowering your potential taxes shouldn’t dictate when you decide to file the divorce paperwork. However, filing for a divorce before the end of the year may help lower your taxes.

 

Instead of filing jointly, you’re only being taxed on your income. Dividing your assets before the end of the year can also mean you’re paying less in annual taxes.

Easier to Get a Court Date

Even if you and your spouse agree to every single term in the divorce, you’re still heading to family court. Sorry, there’s really no way to get out of making at least one court appearance during divorce proceedings.

 

The court must approve your divorce before it’s legal. Skipping this step means your divorce never happens. Yep, you’re still married. Even though all courts are closed during the holidays, don’t panic. Filing now means you have a good shot at getting an early court date after the holidays. Judges tend to try and clear their schedules before an extended break. Filing now can put you at the top of the list.

Reasons a Holiday Divorce May Not Be a Great Idea

If the thought of spending the holidays without your spouse or in-laws has you wiggling with glee, we hate to burst your bubble. Sometimes, filing for divorce over the holidays isn’t the best idea.

What About Your Children?

Do you and your spouse share children? Are they old enough to understand what a divorce means? If so, you probably want to consider your children’s feelings. What will your divorce do to their holidays? Will they always associate the holiday with the break-up of their family? Yep, this can sound a little harsh but it’s something parents want to think about.

 

Filing for divorce now can also ruin any holiday plans, like a scheduled vacation. Will you and your spouse be able to vacation peacefully together? If not, you may be spending the holidays without your kids.

Legal Assistance is Limited

Legal assistance is going to be limited or even almost non-existent over the holidays. Legal professionals also need a break. If you have questions or run into problems, you’re not going to find a lot of help.

 

Don’t forget, courts are also closed so you’re not going to be able to start divorce proceedings until after the holidays.

Starting a New Chapter After the Holidays

Deciding when to file for divorce is a decision only you can make. Whether it’s before, during, or after the holidays, don’t go through the legal process alone. An experienced CT divorce attorney can help you navigate the process.